{"id":3743,"date":"2026-01-22T14:59:36","date_gmt":"2026-01-22T06:59:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selby.com.my\/the-selby-reading-room-on-the-courage-to-be-disliked\/"},"modified":"2026-04-05T15:55:41","modified_gmt":"2026-04-05T07:55:41","slug":"the-selby-reading-room-on-the-courage-to-be-disliked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/selby.com.my\/zh-hans\/the-selby-reading-room-on-the-courage-to-be-disliked\/","title":{"rendered":"Selby \u9605\u8bfb\u5ba4\uff1a\u5173\u4e8e\u88ab\u8ba8\u538c\u7684\u52c7\u6c14"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u5728\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u4e66\u67b6\u4e0a\uff0c\u6709\u4e00\u6bb5\u5bf9\u8bdd\uff0c\u5bf9\u6211\u4eec\u5185\u5728\u4e16\u754c\u7684\u5851\u9020\uff0c\u6216\u8bb8\u80dc\u8fc7\u4efb\u4f55\u5176\u4ed6\u6587\u672c\u3002<br>\u5b83\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u672c\u5355\u7eaf\u7ed9\u51fa\u5efa\u8bae\u7684\u4e66\uff1b<br>\u5b83\u66f4\u50cf\u662f\u5728\u91cd\u65b0\u6446\u653e\u6211\u4eec\u5fc3\u667a\u7a7a\u95f4\u91cc\u7684\u5bb6\u5177\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u6211\u4eec\u4eca\u5929\u60f3\u4e0e\u4f60\u5206\u4eab\u5b83\uff0c\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u5728 Selby\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u76f8\u4fe1\u2014\u2014<br>\u808c\u80a4\u7684\u72b6\u6001\uff0c\u5f80\u5f80\u662f\u5185\u5728\u7cbe\u795e\u72b6\u6001\u7684\u4e00\u9762\u955c\u5b50\u3002<br>\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u4e0e\u81ea\u5df1\u4e3a\u654c\uff0c\u8fd9\u79cd\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c\u7ec8\u7a76\u4f1a\u663e\u73b0\u51fa\u6765\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u8fd9\u672c\u4e66\u662f\u300a\u88ab\u8ba8\u538c\u7684\u52c7\u6c14\u300b\uff0c\u4f5c\u8005\u4e3a\u5cb8\u89c1\u4e00\u90ce\u4e0e\u53e4\u8d3a\u53f2\u5065\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u5b83\u4ee5\u4e00\u4f4d\u54f2\u5b66\u5bb6\u4e0e\u4e00\u540d\u5e74\u8f7b\u4eba\u7684\u5bf9\u8bdd\u5f62\u5f0f\u5c55\u5f00\uff0c\u63a2\u8ba8\u4e86\u963f\u5c14\u5f17\u96f7\u5fb7\u00b7\u963f\u5fb7\u52d2\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u601d\u60f3\u3002<br>\u5b83\u76f4\u9762\u4e00\u4e2a\u65e2\u4ee4\u4eba\u6050\u60e7\u3001\u53c8\u6781\u5ea6\u89e3\u653e\u7684\u524d\u63d0\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u81ea\u7531\uff0c\u610f\u5473\u7740\u88ab\u4ed6\u4eba\u8ba8\u538c\u3002 \u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u6e34\u671b\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c<br>\u800c\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u6211\u4eec\u7ec8\u4e8e\u505c\u6b62\u4e86\u53ea\u4e3a\u4e86\u53d6\u60a6\u89c2\u4f17\u800c\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u538b\u8feb\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"447\" src=\"https:\/\/selby.unicorn.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3059\" srcset=\"https:\/\/selby.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked.webp 800w, https:\/\/selby.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked-600x335.webp 600w, https:\/\/selby.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked-300x168.webp 300w, https:\/\/selby.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/The-Courage-to-Be-Disliked-768x429.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>(Regulatory Note:<\/strong>&nbsp;<em>This recommendation is made independently by the Selby editorial team for educational and inspirational purposes. We are not affiliated with, sponsored by, or commercially partnered with the authors (Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga) or the publishers. All book cover designs and titles remain the intellectual property of their respective copyright holders.<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u51b3\u5b9a\u7684\u91cd\u91cf<\/strong> <strong>The Weight of 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\u5728 Selby\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u62d2\u7edd\u53c2\u4e0e\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u5faa\u73af\u3002<br>\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u76f8\u4fe1\u901a\u8fc7\u6563\u64ad\u6050\u60e7\u6765\u4fc3\u6210\u8d2d\u4e70\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u9009\u62e9\u7684\u81ea\u4e3b\u6743<\/strong> <strong>The Autonomy of 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\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u662f\u6765\u5b9a\u4e49\u4f60\u7684\u201c\u7f3a\u9677\u201d\uff1b<br>\u6211\u4eec\u662f\u6765\u5c0a\u91cd\u4f60\u4f5c\u4e3a\u9009\u62e9\u8005\u7684\u4e3b\u4f53\u6027\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><strong>\u8bfe\u9898\u7684\u5206\u79bb<\/strong><\/strong> <strong>The Separation of 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